Category: BPD

THE LESBIAN BORDERLINE

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THE LESBIAN BORDERLINE
For the Love of Mother

By Shari Schreiber, M.A.
www.GettinBetter.com

The first line of her post is:

I’ve never met a lesbian who didn’t have significant issues with her mother.“.

My exposure to Lesbians may be limited, but the ones that I have crossed paths with, that quote applies.

Mother issues are also something that seem to to be common with Narcissists.

I do not know if Psychopaths also have Mother Issues.

This reminds me of a video of a therapy session with an angelic looking 6 year old girl who was a diagnosed Psychopath. She would steal and hide large sharp knives. Why? She stated without hesitation, that she wanted to use the knives to kill her baby brother and her adopted Mother. Her reply was matter of fact, no emotion.

Robert Hare PHD had discussed that therapy video in his book Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us”.

Shari Schreiber’s post is an informative read.

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Lecture detailing Borderline and Narcissistic Personality Disorders by Dr. Elsa Ronningstam

Dr. Elsa Ronningstam presents a very detailed lecture about the symptoms and Traits of those with Borderline Personality Disorder and those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She also discusses the difference between BPD and NPD.

Video is courtesy of the NEA BPD YouTube channel

This video has very good information and lots of it. Unfortunately the good Doctor is not that great a presenter. Might I suggest to break up viewing this video into 10 to 15 minute segments.

Differences and similarities between Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder

Dr. Kristi Webb discusses the Traits of those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

Video is courtesy of the Dr. Kristi Webb YouTube channel

Informative video, but the framing drives me nuts. She should redo it, as no one is interested in looking at her ceiling tiles while she talks.

Click on this Link to visit the Dr. Kristi Webb Facebook page.

Borderline Personality Disorder compared to Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Excellent video detailing the differences between Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

Video is courtesy of the Self-Care Haven YouTube channel

“Attachment trauma and the effects of neglect and abuse on the brain” by Dr. Allan Schore

Dr. Allan Schore discusses “Attachment trauma and the effects of neglect and abuse on the brain“.

The development of severe Psychopathologies occurs during right Brain development, during very early childhood. Attachment Trauma and Abandonment Trauma are all stored in the right hemisphere of the Brain, even before the left hemisphere starts to develop.

That is why Brain Scans of Narcissists, Borderlines and Psychopaths show differences from the general population. Because of Attachment Trauma and Abandonment Trauma, the brains of those with Severe Psychopathologies are unable to to wire themselves normally. It is not nature. It is nurture and the severe lack of nurture which plays a major role in creating those with severe Personality Disorders.

Video is courtesy of the PsychAlive YouTube channel

Click on this line to visit the official website of Dr. Allan Schore.

Click on this line to visit the Wikipedia page to get some background info on Dr. Allan Schore.

Narcissistic & Borderline couples – The Dance of Dysfunction

Two Narcissists often form relationships, as long as they are of two different type of Narcissists. For example a Somatic Narcissist will not compete for the Narcissist Supply needed by a Cerebral Narcissist and so they can both form a couple..

Another common relationship is between someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and someone with Borderline Personality Disorder. The dance of dysfunction.

A female with BPD will try to control the Narcissist. The term “Golden Vagina” comes into play. The Narcissist needs to also be superior and come out on top. The Narcissist is used to controlling others. Being controlled by the person with BPD will unhinge the Narcissist.

A person with BPD can also quickly flip between Loving the Narcissist and Hating the Narcissist, thus triggering the Narcissist’s fear of losing their source of Narcissistic Supply and extreme fear of abandonment. Hence the Dance of Dysfunction.

Video is courtesy of the Dr Judy WTF YouTube channel

Perfect Pathological Couple = Borderline Personality Disorder female with a male Narcissist.

Perfect Pathological Couple = Borderline Personality Disorder female with a male Narcissist. The core which they both share is a childhood trauma of being abandoned. In adults this manifests itself as a strong “Fear of Abandonment“. She fears being abandoned and so will put up with the Narcissist’s use and abuse. He has no empathy for her feelings, which triggers her fear of him leaving her, and further establishes his control over her. She feeds his need for Narcissistic Supply and so he fears losing that Narcissistic Supply.

There is a 2nd video, from, Judy Rosenberg, which is more centered on the female with Borderline Personality Disorder.I’ll try to post it at a later date.

Video is courtesy of the Judy Rosenberg YouTube channel

 

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