Category: Empathy

Steve Stephens the Cleveland Easter Killer. Zero Empathy for his victims and Zero Remorse.

The Steve Stephens video has him talking about himself. He speaks of killing 13 people and hunting for the 14th victim. It’s all about him.

Zero empathy for anyone.
Zero remorse for what he has done and will do.

These videos are a rare view of a reactive Psychopath. Never forget that the Spectrum of Disorders run from Normal Narcissism (yes a small amount of Narcissism is normal) to Malignant Narcissist to Killer Psychopath. If someone is already towards the malignant end of the spectrum, it would not take much to trigger them to become physically abusive.

Never dare a Disordered Individual to hit you, because they may not know how to stop once they start beating you. Much like Steve Stephens knew exactly what he was doing when he was out hunting for total strangers to kill.  He was unable to stop, once he got himself started.

The following video is of a very long rant by the Psychopath Steve Stephens. It’s all about him. It’s not his fault. It his ex-girlfriend’s fault and his Mother’s fault. He justifies his action in a telephone conversation saying that he did what he did because has anger and frustration. He states that he killed 13 people and does so without any emotion. ZERO EMPATHY for anyone.

Video is courtesy of the MGTOW Syndicon YouTube channel

Click on this link to visit The Daily Beast news site to read their article titled: “Cleveland Facebook Killer Steve Stephens Tortured Pets as a Teen, Neighbor Says

Click on this link to visit the NBC News site to read their post titled: “Cleveland Facebook Killer: Spotted at McDonald’s, Steve Stephens Shoots Self Dead After Pa. Police Chase”.

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In our society having lots of Empathy for others, showing kindness and readily helping others is deemed to be a weakness

Do you tend to have codependent tendencies? Do you automatically try and help people?

Having lots of Empathy for others and wanting to help others is a good thing. It’s also one Red Flag of Codependency. The problem is that Disordered Individuals look for such people and when they find them they will try and use them. It’s not only the Narcissists who will take advantage of the kindness of others.

The author of the article makes an important point, that in our society having lots of Empathy for others, showing kindness and readily helping others is deemed to be a weakness. Personally I disagree, IMHO it is a sign of a highly evolved individual (soul) and the world would be a far better place if it was filled with such kind hearted and loving individuals. Sadly that is not the case. There are far far more Disordered Individuals and just plain assholes to contend with.

Click on this line to read the article posted on iheartintelligence.com titled

Surrounded by Jerks: One Cause of Depression that No One Talks About.

The following is a quote from that post By :

Expectations lead to Dissapointment
As a nice person, typically we expect the same kindness that we give to others to be returned. Unfortunately, that is so rarely the case that it’s hard not to just completely lose faith in humanity. There are people out there that make a life of feeding off of the kindness of others. There are people in our own lives that keep us around simply because they know that they can depend on our kindness when they need it. It truly is disappointing. It’s disappointing that people use us like that.

The Smearing of the Empath

I have previously explained some of the forms that the smear campaign takes and also why they are so effective. Now I turn to the six reasons why they affect somebody like you so much. Smear…

Source: The Smearing of the Empath

TEDX Talks presents Dr. Helen Riess, an Associate Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, discussing research on the Neuroscience of Emotions and Empathy

Dr. Helen Riess is an Associate Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. She directs the Empathy & Relational Science Program, conducting unique research on the neuroscience of emotions and empathy, and is Co-Founder, Chief Scientist and Chairman of Empathetics, LLC.

Dr. Helen Riess has devoted her career to research on the Neuroscience and art of the patient-doctor relationship and teaching psychiatry residents and medical students. Her research team conducts translational research based on the Neuroscience of emotions. The effectiveness of Dr. Riess’s Empathy training approach has been demonstrated in several studies including a randomized controlled trial.

This TEDX Talks presentation has many insights into Empathy.

Video is courtesy of the TEDx Talks YouTube channel

Empaths should be aware that every good deed will rarely be left unpunished.

Many victims of Narcissistic Abuse tend to be Empaths. Narcissists look for and then target Empaths.

Empaths should be aware that every good deed will rarely be left unpunished.

This news article is an example of that. Within the last year I have read of something almost identical.

The Good Samaritan (bet ya he was an Empath) is driving along and sees a Dodge Durango off the road in a side ditch. He stops and helps two young guys get the truck back onto the road.

The two guys thank the Good Samaritan for his help, by allegedly “Robbing” him and then allegedly “Shooting” him. Yes, the joys of being a Good Samaritan and having empathy for someone in a difficult situation…

In this case it looks to me like the Durango might have been placed in the ditch on purpose, so as to attract a Good Samaritan to rob. Never stop to help in such a situation. Use your cell phone and inform Law Enforcement that someone needs help. Many Cell Phones also have GPS, so you can provide the coordinates of the location. Please Stay Safe Dear Empaths.

Click on this Link to visit The Post and Courier news website to read their news article titled “Coroner’s Office identifies man fatally shot in North Charleston, two teens face murder charges.”.

Being an Empath can open the door to Living Hell.

Being an Empath can open the door to Living Hell, for the Empath and those close to them.

The video is about the Tragic Life of an Empath, who was targeted by a Narcissist, Sociopath and Psychopaths.

Her Narcissistic Ex Husband, shot the Empath multiple times at close range. The Narcissist Ex shot himself in the head and died.

The Empath survived the shooting and took almost a decade to recover. A blood transfusion given during her ordeal was tainted with Hepatitis C. This Empath could not catch a break.

Then a Sociopath and Psychopaths targeted her and her new husband. The Empath and her new Husband end up being buried alive together, by the Psychopaths.

Video courtesy of the Couples Who Kill YouTube channel

Are All Mental Illnesses Related? David Kessler’s explanation of “Capture” could explain the basis of Narcissism

Are All Mental Illnesses Related?

David Kessler’s explanation of “Capture” could explain the formation and basis of Narcissism.

Who is David Kessler? He is the former Commissioner of the Food and Drug Administration.

His argument is that the process he refers to as “Capture”, is the “common mechanism” for all forms of Mental Illness and that it is based on the hard Wiring of the Brain and not on Chemical Imbalances.

David Kessler‘s view about “Capture,correlates well with MRI Brain Scans of Narcissists and Psychopaths. Those Brain Scans show that their Brains react and process information differently than the general population.

Empathy lights up specific ares of a “more normal” Brain. Such does not happen with individuals with Cluster-B disorders. I have read that Brain Scans of Psychopaths indicate that areas of their Brains related to enjoyment light up when they view scenes of people being physically hurt or mutilated. Such never happens in the general population.

Because of specific hard wiring changes in the brains of say Narcissists, they in turn focus on selective stimuli – looking for and feeding off of Narcissistic Supply. The MRI Brains Scans also address why lack of empathy is a major Narcissistic trait and that it is directly tied to the way their Brain works.

If the video player does not start automatically, then plse click on the link below.
http://www.theatlantic.com/video/iframe/477918/ Video is courtesy of The Atlantic

There was also a radio interview with David Kessler on the Diane Rehm Show. In that interview, David goes into more fascinating detail about the idea of the process he called “Capture”.

Click on this line to visit The Diane Rehm Show website to listen to the interview. They also have a transcript on screen to read.

Click on this line to visit the Amazon.com site to view info about and to purchase David Kessler’s new book titled: “Capture: Unraveling the Mystery of Mental Suffering

 

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7 characteristics of people who are drawn to and attract Narcissists!

7 characteristics of people who are drawn to and attract Narcissists!

Are you a Kind, Compassionate
and Loving person?
If so, then Narcissists may have their eye on you.

Christine Louis De Canonville made a most interesting observation during her seminar on “Narcissistic Victim Syndrome“. She stated that if you have been in a prior relationship with a Narcissist, you have “been primed” and other Narcissists will be highly attracted to you.

In this video Doctr Sam discusses seven personality traits which will make you an ideal candidate to be targeted by a Narcissist.

Empathy for other living beings is something which Narcissists lack. Brain Scans indicate that it has something to do with the hard wiring of the Frontal Lobe of their brains.

They lack Empathy, yet will Target those who have and display lots of Empathy.

Video is courtesy of the DoctrSam YouTube channel

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Alien Life Forms lack Empathy for others, just like Narcissists

Empathy for others, is a large part of what makes us “Human Beings”.

Lack of Empathy is an Alien or Reptilian quality.

Empathy does not register in their mind. Maybe it is because of Childhood Trauma. Maybe no one gave a shit about them, when they were a young child and really needed someone to care, but no one did. Childhood Abandonment Issues is one thing which Narcissists seem to have in common.

Video is courtesy of the Sam Vaknin YouTUbe channel

 

 

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