Tagged: BPD

THE LESBIAN BORDERLINE

Click on the link to visit the post titled “

THE LESBIAN BORDERLINE
For the Love of Mother

By Shari Schreiber, M.A.
www.GettinBetter.com

The first line of her post is:

I’ve never met a lesbian who didn’t have significant issues with her mother.“.

My exposure to Lesbians may be limited, but the ones that I have crossed paths with, that quote applies.

Mother issues are also something that seem to to be common with Narcissists.

I do not know if Psychopaths also have Mother Issues.

This reminds me of a video of a therapy session with an angelic looking 6 year old girl who was a diagnosed Psychopath. She would steal and hide large sharp knives. Why? She stated without hesitation, that she wanted to use the knives to kill her baby brother and her adopted Mother. Her reply was matter of fact, no emotion.

Robert Hare PHD had discussed that therapy video in his book Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us”.

Shari Schreiber’s post is an informative read.

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Lecture detailing Borderline and Narcissistic Personality Disorders by Dr. Elsa Ronningstam

Dr. Elsa Ronningstam presents a very detailed lecture about the symptoms and Traits of those with Borderline Personality Disorder and those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She also discusses the difference between BPD and NPD.

Video is courtesy of the NEA BPD YouTube channel

This video has very good information and lots of it. Unfortunately the good Doctor is not that great a presenter. Might I suggest to break up viewing this video into 10 to 15 minute segments.

Borderline Personality Disorder compared to Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Excellent video detailing the differences between Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

Video is courtesy of the Self-Care Haven YouTube channel

“The most important years of life: Our beginning” lecture by Dr. Allan Schore

The first few years (especially the 1st two years) of your life, literally created the type of person that you are today. Attachment Theory has brought forth new discoveries about Human Brain development. It not just about physical needs (blood oxygen etc). Nurture is just as important. Dr. Schore uses the terms “Mother Nature” and also “Mother Nurture“. There is being developed a combined Psychological Development and Biological Development model.

The very young baby has no language. All communications are visual and “emotional”. The baby perceives the world using non-verbal communications. Since the left brain has not started to develop, then all non-verbal communications takes place and develops in the right hemisphere of the brain. The baby communicates and perceives emotion via it’s eyes and “intuition”. As adults we shift to verbal left brain communications

Codependency and Personality Disorders like NPD, BPD and Psychpathy seem to be related to the type of Attachment Trauma experienced by the developing infant. Both the Codependent and the Narcissist seem to have a severe lack of self esteem at their core.

This is a fascinating video where Dr. Schore discusses the cutting edge research, which is changing our knowledge of the development of normal  Human Beings and also pf Human Monsters..

Video is courtesy of the Rune Fardal YouTube channel

Click on this line to visit David Baldwin’s Trauma Information Pages to read the study results from a Research Studies by Dr. Allan Schore which was originally published in: Infant Mental Health Journal, 2001. The Research Study results were titled: The Effects of a Secure Attachment Relationship on Right Brain Development, Affect Regulation, & Infant Mental Health“.

Narcissistic & Borderline couples – The Dance of Dysfunction

Two Narcissists often form relationships, as long as they are of two different type of Narcissists. For example a Somatic Narcissist will not compete for the Narcissist Supply needed by a Cerebral Narcissist and so they can both form a couple..

Another common relationship is between someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and someone with Borderline Personality Disorder. The dance of dysfunction.

A female with BPD will try to control the Narcissist. The term “Golden Vagina” comes into play. The Narcissist needs to also be superior and come out on top. The Narcissist is used to controlling others. Being controlled by the person with BPD will unhinge the Narcissist.

A person with BPD can also quickly flip between Loving the Narcissist and Hating the Narcissist, thus triggering the Narcissist’s fear of losing their source of Narcissistic Supply and extreme fear of abandonment. Hence the Dance of Dysfunction.

Video is courtesy of the Dr Judy WTF YouTube channel