Must view video filled with insights about Love Bombing and other Red Flags.
Her new Lover was talking about Marriage very shortly after their first meeting. This woman became so Psychologically Manipulated by the Love Bombing, that she bought her Wedding Dress within the first 2 weeks of meeting that new Lover. Classic Love Bombing and Major Red Flag. Love Bombing worked faster than Brain Washing / Mind Control techniques. The new Lover was in the mean time also seeing another woman.
The person Love Bombing you, is also Mirroring you. That establishes a very deep rapport and trust in the mind of the victim being Psychologically Manipulated. That deep Rapport and Trust is something which keeps physical Abuse Victim in Abusive Relationship.
The Victim dismisses being kicked down a fight of stairs and reminds herself of the beginning of the relationship when the Love Bombing and Mirroring were going on at full speed. She tells herself that he was so sweet and so charming and amazing and so lovable. The fact that he now punches her in the head multiple times and gives her Black Eyes on a regular basis, does not dislodge the Mind Control established during the Love Bombing phase. The abuse is dismissed because she is still “in Love” with the fake Persona she met during the Love Bombing phase.
Love Bombing is not about Love. Love Bombing is strictly about establishing Control over the Victim.
Video is courtesy of the Truthball In Search of Goof YouTube channel
One thing to note is how this woman kept attracting Disordered Individuals. Christine De Canonville noted in a seminar that once you have been with a Disordered Individual, you have been primed and other Disordered Individuals will spot you in a crowd and target you.
In the past I have discussed Psychological Manipulations Techniques used by Narcissists, such as Love Bombing and Mirroring. Well their bag of Mind Control techniques does not stop at Love Bombing and Mirroring.
Next up, lets discuss “Pacing and Leading“.
“Pacing and Leading” is another Psychological Manipulation Technique commonly used by Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths. They will Love Bomb you. They will Mirror you. They will use Pacing and Leading. They want to establish Rapport without you realizing that it is all fake and is being done in an attempt to “control you“. Once Rapport is established, your natural defense mechanism will be turn off, “by you”.
Love Bombing, Mirroring, Pacing and Leading work.
That is why Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths are so well versed in these Psychological Manipulation Techniques. For you this is all new. The Narcissist knows that you and most people have never even heard of this stuff.
Video is courtesy of the Dantalion Jones YouTube channel
Posted to uniquelynarcissistic.wordpress.com
Derren Brown video demonstrating
the power of Mirroring, Leading and Pacing.
Video is courtesy of the Robert Stark YouTube channel
Once you have Mirrored and Led and then Paced someone, the next step is to anchor Triggers into their mind. One easier way is if you first put then into a sleep like trance.
The Target has no clue what has transpired. When the Trigger anchored in the Target’s Mind is pulled, the Target will do what ever you have programmed them to do.
Mirroring is one Gateway into your Mind.
In this case, the little girl in Red, holding balloons was the Trigger. The Target saw the little girl in Red, holding balloons. The Trigger was pulled. The Target then proceeds to enter the nearest electronics store and walk out with a stolen Television, as he had been programmed to do.
When stopped, the Target had NO recall of being mirrored and programmed. The perfect Manchurian Candidate (referencing back to an old movie about Mind Control)
The Derren Brown video shows just how quickly and easily one can perform Mind Programming and achieve Mind Control. “It worked”, because Mirroring “opened the gateway” into the Target’s Mind. Narcissists can become experts at Mirroring. They hone their Mirroring skills, each and every day. Watch for it !
Narcissists are Puppet Masters.
Would you like to become their Puppet?
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