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Sociopaths, Psychopaths, and Malignant Narcissists

Sociopaths,
Psychopaths,
and Malignant Narcissists.

By Therapist: Shannon Petrovich LCSW

Video courtesy of the Therapist Talks YouTube channel

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How to Spot the Difference between a Narcissist, a Psychopath, and a Sociopath.

Dr. Ramani Durvasula, psychologist and author,  discusses the differences between Psychopaths, Sociopaths and Narcissists.

Video is courtesy of the MedCircle YouTube Channel.

Click on this line to visit Amazon.com to see the book “Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist” which Dr. Ramani Durvasula  has authored.

Quote “You had no prior knowledge of Narcissists, Sociopaths or Psychopaths. Your Abusive Partner immediately picked up on that.”

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Quote:You had no prior knowledge of Narcissists, Sociopaths or Psychopaths. Your Abusive Partner immediately picked up on that.

 

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Ex “didn’t accept being abandoned”, so he burned her alive

The story hit the AP Newswire. Because it’s copyrighted I can’t post it. There is already a YouTube video which has someone reading the AP report.

The Mail Online site did some further research and included photos of the female and her “ex”, which were not part of the AP News Feed.

Note the quote “didn’t accept being abandoned” (my quoting a few words out of hundreds for education purposes falls under “Fair Use” and I am quoting from the AP post). Interesting choice of words. It must be the victims fault. If she had not abandoned the guy, he would not have burned her alive. Somehow to them, it is always the fault of the victim.

In essence, the Ex followed the victim. Ran her car off the road. Got access to her car interior, while the victim was still in it. Poured alcohol into her car and lit it with a lighter. The victim left her now burning car. The Ex caught up to her. Threw alcohol at her head  and lit it. She died from her burns. All that because the Ex “didn’t accept being abandoned”. He sure won her back, did he not.

Such a thing happening once, is one time too many. Yet this kind of thing sadly happens.

Click on this line to visit the Mail Online (British News) site to read their news article about this.

I know a female who takes a Taxi home after work, because she is scared of her ex following her if she walks home. That female was a major inspiration for me to setup this site. Her situation is a lot worse than the one in the news article. She’s been hospitalized for months at a time, thanks to her ex. Just imagine looking over your shoulder the rest of your life. Her ex is not just some regular ordinary office worker.  She has a black belt in an Asian Martial Art. Her ex has had training way beyond that

People who have suffered Attachment and Abandonment Trauma when they were infants, can become very disordered adults. To suffer an Abandonment Trauma Event as a adult could send the person in two directions. One is to become suicidal over being abandoned. It is real, I’ve seen two somatic female Narcs go that route – both survived.

The other direction is to destroy the person who abandoned them (as in the news article). It comes down to the destruction of self or the other person. Someone has to pay, it’s either me or them.  Disordered people have limited choices, especially those at the extreme end of disorders of Narcissism, and Sociopathy. Psychopaths, it is my understanding, would not suffer an Abandonment Trauma Event like say a Malignant Narcissist would. A Psychopath will kill you, because they want to kill you (no excuse needed to motivate them).

Learn the Red Flags to watch out for. If you don’t become involved with a Disordered individual, then you cannot abandon them. You become a non-issue to them, as they have a number of targets lined up to become potential sources of Narcissistic supply for example.

Click on this line to read the NY Post article about this event. The Mail Online article has more detail and photos – see the link further up in this post.

“The most important years of life: Our beginning” lecture by Dr. Allan Schore

The first few years (especially the 1st two years) of your life, literally created the type of person that you are today. Attachment Theory has brought forth new discoveries about Human Brain development. It not just about physical needs (blood oxygen etc). Nurture is just as important. Dr. Schore uses the terms “Mother Nature” and also “Mother Nurture“. There is being developed a combined Psychological Development and Biological Development model.

The very young baby has no language. All communications are visual and “emotional”. The baby perceives the world using non-verbal communications. Since the left brain has not started to develop, then all non-verbal communications takes place and develops in the right hemisphere of the brain. The baby communicates and perceives emotion via it’s eyes and “intuition”. As adults we shift to verbal left brain communications

Codependency and Personality Disorders like NPD, BPD and Psychpathy seem to be related to the type of Attachment Trauma experienced by the developing infant. Both the Codependent and the Narcissist seem to have a severe lack of self esteem at their core.

This is a fascinating video where Dr. Schore discusses the cutting edge research, which is changing our knowledge of the development of normal  Human Beings and also pf Human Monsters..

Video is courtesy of the Rune Fardal YouTube channel

Click on this line to visit David Baldwin’s Trauma Information Pages to read the study results from a Research Studies by Dr. Allan Schore which was originally published in: Infant Mental Health Journal, 2001. The Research Study results were titled: The Effects of a Secure Attachment Relationship on Right Brain Development, Affect Regulation, & Infant Mental Health“.

“Attachment trauma and the effects of neglect and abuse on the brain” by Dr. Allan Schore

Dr. Allan Schore discusses “Attachment trauma and the effects of neglect and abuse on the brain“.

The development of severe Psychopathologies occurs during right Brain development, during very early childhood. Attachment Trauma and Abandonment Trauma are all stored in the right hemisphere of the Brain, even before the left hemisphere starts to develop.

That is why Brain Scans of Narcissists, Borderlines and Psychopaths show differences from the general population. Because of Attachment Trauma and Abandonment Trauma, the brains of those with Severe Psychopathologies are unable to to wire themselves normally. It is not nature. It is nurture and the severe lack of nurture which plays a major role in creating those with severe Personality Disorders.

Video is courtesy of the PsychAlive YouTube channel

Click on this line to visit the official website of Dr. Allan Schore.

Click on this line to visit the Wikipedia page to get some background info on Dr. Allan Schore.

Craig Malkin Ph.D. discusses “Why Do People Stay in Abusive Relationships? The answer is more complicated than you think.”

“Sandra L. Brown” speaks about “Psychopathy ….When The Mask Begins to Slip”

Psychopathy ….When The Mask Begins to Slip” featuring “Sandra L. Brown and host Jenna Stauffer.

Video is courtesy of the Jenna Stauffer YouTube channel

Sandra L. Brown, M.A., is the founder of The Institute for Relational Harm Reduction & Public Pathology Education. Her books include:  How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved, the award winning Women Who Love Psychopaths: Inside the Relationships of Inevitable Harm With Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists, as well as the clinically relevant Counseling Victims of Violence: A Handbook for Helping Professionals.

 

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“Thomas Sheridan” Lecture titled “It is Now Time to Walk Out of Hell”.

Lifting the veil on Psychopaths and Psychopathy. “It’s just business”, no need for feelings. This video really nails it…

Video is courtesy of the Thomas Sheridan YouTUbe channel

 

Click on this line to visit Thomas Sheridan’s blog.

Click on this line to visit Thomas Sheridan’s website.

 

 

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How to Thrive in a World of Lying, Backstabbing and Dirty Tricks. Dealing with Workplace Psychopaths, Machiavellians, and Narcissists.

How to Thrive in a World of Lying, Backstabbing and Dirty Tricks.

Dealing with workplace Psychopaths, Machiavellians, and Narcissists.

This video is a radio interview with Oliver James who is a psychologist, bestselling author and broadcaster. He details the workplace colleagues who have no compunction about trampling over others, or like nothing more than to plot and scheme, or who drone on endlessly about themselves.

Oliver James posits that there are three Dysfunctional Personality types found in the typical workplace: Psychopaths, Machiavellians, and Narcissists.

Video is courtesy of the Psychopathy102 YouTube channel

 

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Psychopathy is the number one Health Risk, yet most people have no clue what the tell tell signs of Psychopathy are

This is an extremely important video, featuring Sandra L. Brown, M.A.,  the founder of The Institute for Relational Harm Reduction & Public Pathology Education. It speaks of the total lack of knowledge of the Pathology of Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists.

People without a conscience, who have a total lack of Empathy for others, Negatively affect Millions of lives.

The Brains of Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists differ from the Brains of those who do not suffer from such disorders. They Have suffered major Attachment Trauma resulting in the right hemisphere of their Brain being unable to wire itself properly. This occurs very early in childhood, even before the left hemisphere of the brain has started to develop.

Since Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists cannot be helped (psychologically), the best approach is to educate the public of the Signs and Red Flags to look for. To educate people about who Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists literally “Target” and “Hunt for.

Knowledge of the Signs and Red Flags  can protect people from being Targeted, Used and Abused by Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists who suffer from such disorders.

Please watch this video and share it with friends and family.

Video is courtesy of the Jenna Stauffer YouTube channel

 
In my posts here, I keep harping about Mirroring and to watch out for people Mirroring you. In this video Mirroring is mentioned starting at 23:30 and specifically at 25:50 and on.

Mirroring is a “very important” Red Flag.
PLEASE WATCH FOR IT.

Click on this line to visit Sandra L. Brown’s website at http://saferelationships.com

See also Sandra’s other website http://saferelationshipsmagazine.com/

You can view our other post featuring Sandra by clicking on this line:  “Sandra L. Brown” speaks about “Psychopathy ….When The Mask Begins to Slip”

Click on this line to visit Amazon.com to buy the book titled “How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved” authored by Sandra L. Brown.

Click on this line to visit Amazon.com to buy the award winning book titled “Women Who Love Psychopaths: Inside the Relationships of Inevitable Harm With Psychopaths, Sociopaths & Narcissists” written by Sandra L. Brown.

Click on this line to visit Amazon.com to buy the book titled “Counseling Victims of Violence: A Handbook for Helping Professionals” authored by Sandra L. Brown.

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